Which I think is a disgusting thing to send to anyone, personally I think she's being insensitive to me and my daughters relationship. According to my mom, she's been crying for hours, and won't stop talking about how I'm such a monster for not thinking of her feelings. AITA? I just don't think she has a right to yell at my kid because she lost ...AITA for telling my husband my ex and I traveled to 56 countries together? I (44F) am turning 45 August 3rd. Two months ago my husband of 5 years (45M) surprised me and said he booked us a 10 day vacation to Italy. We leave July 28th. My husband is a special ed middle school teacher so school is out until September.It's my medical event. It's my body. It's my delivery/birth journey. Me, me, me, me, me. I, I, I, I, I. It's all about me—the pregnant woman and anything I say goes even though I didn't make this baby on my own and will damn well insist that the other (male) parent provide 50% of the care (emotional, financial, etc.)1.2K Likes, 25 Comments. TikTok video from stories.lucy (@aitastories_lucy): “Replying to @stories.lucy AITA for telling my husband. My money is mine? #AITA #question #reddit #redditstories #reddit_tiktok #storytime #story #fyp #foryou #game”. aita for always getting a separate bill update. original sound - stories.lucy.So, tell husband that you are not going to have any extra "fun money" until you have sufficient savings to cover any emergencies for the townhome building, as well as the mortgage paid off. That will be what, 15 years?AITA for telling my neighbor no? Not the A-hole. My husband (20M) & I (20F) live next to another couple in their early 20s who just recently had a baby. We've lived next to them for the past six months and at first we were neighborly with them. About a month of being neighborly with them, they started asking us for favors every two weeks, and ...Counseling only works when both parties are communicating in good faith with a goal of a healthy relationship. OP's husband wants a bang maid who pays for the privilege. OP, you're being shamefully used. This will never get better no matter what you do because your husband benefits from how things are now.If you were a good partner, you'd support him during this time, and go with him. If you can't do that, then let him grieve in peace. Honestly the only reason you "hated" her was because she was his ex. Her husband got past this and was even friends with your husband. Your just jealous and petty. Reply.So I (28M) have been married to my wife for 4 years and we have a 2 year old son together. My older sister Ariel has 2 kids with her husband. She is my only sibling but we do not speak and haven't since my wedding 4 years ago. My wife knew I had no relationship with my sister or mother whenever we got together but now it's causing an argument.ADMIN MOD. AITA for not telling my boyfriend I won money 15 years ago? Not the A-hole. I don't know what I did wrong or if what I did is wrong and I need some advice. I didn't want to post this on my real account because I'd like to be as anonymous as possible. My boyfriend (35m) and I (35f) were discussing finances as we wanted to be on ...If they decided to get a loan from someone with an insane interest rate without telling you, that’s on them. Your husband has already shown you he can’t be trusted to pay anyone back, not even you. That’s not a good husband. Keep your money away from him and don’t let him make you feel bad. 16.Nah you made an assumption it was wrong. Unless you specifically stated you would not have kids with him then he's not wrong to assume that's on the cards. If you were positive you were never going to have more kids I'm confused why you wouldn't have that conversation before marriage.By the end of the night, he owed my brother-in-law around £5,000 which isn't the type of money my brother can just easily hand over. When I saw my brother he looked like he was on the verge of a panic attack. After I forced him to tell me what happened I confronted my brother-in-law who thought the entire thing was just some harmless fun.Nice-Cry-8280. AITA for telling my husband I threw out his clothes to teach him a lesson? 30f. I have 4 children (10yo triplets - 2 boys, 1 girl - from my previous marriage, their father passed when I was pregnant, and a 6mo with my current husband). Been with my husband for 4 years.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I have told my sister that she owes my money for stealing my watch for months and bringing back dirty and worn and scratched. I think I'm the asshole for telling her this impulsively and putting all the blame on her for my own negligence.I wanted my mom with me because my mil is an overbearing - steamrolling type. My every concern, every query was ignored. My mom stayed with me because i asked her to stay in te room. I was worried that if i needed high level intervention my mil will put kids life over mine. My 2nd time was easier, i pushed for my own doc, own hosp etc.I suggested he ask his Aunt for $160k, or list it on the market. My husband didn't inherit the house, he bought it from his grandparents for full appraisal value. He still owes $90k on the house. He is flat out refusing to renegotiate, and said I'm too money hungry. Last year my husband barely made $30k at work, so we could potentially get ...AITA for telling my husband to talk to his mother re: our newborn. My husband and I just had our first child together after a couple years of trying and dealing with infertility. Our son came early, a month and a half - we spent three weeks in the NICU and it was a very emotional time for me/us. Fast forward and we are now home and getting used ...The weird thing is my husband and I sanded our fake-wood cabinets, specifically so that paint would stick on them, and it worked. But we took the doors off and used a belt sander in the shop and basically took them down to the stuff underneath (I forget what it was but there was wood involved, particle board or something) and then we used ...8.7K Likes, 189 Comments. TikTok video from redditlisa (@redditlisa): “AITA for telling my husband. My money is mine? #storytime #reddit #redditstories #fyp …So me and my husband already knew we'd be exchanging the earrings. Usually, we don't tell people we're exchanging a gift they bought for us. This time is different. My stepmother has been pestering me about piercing my daughter's ears since she was born. There's always a different reason why.The OOP is u/mariaMK21 posting in r/AITAH. Concluded as per OOP. 2 updates - Short. Original - 20th February 2024. Update1 - 22nd February 2024. Update2 - 25th February 2024. AITA For telling my husband i don't care about his kids? hi, i know i sound like the asshole right from the get go but please hear me out.My husband and I do Easter baskets for one another, and this year he gave me mine early since I’ll be gone. In the basket was the usual, dark choco bunny, Starburst jelly beans, and then some Swiftie stuff from Etsy, a fidget toy, and really surprisingly he got me three full bottles of perfumes that were on my wish list.Her husband is working his ass off to get money together for them so he comes home exhausted. And he is more help than her or their kids. The three of them leave dirty dishes everywhere. Dirty laundry everywhere. The house is just a mess. I have spoken to all of them, including my husband about this. My son-in-law is the only one who makes an ...See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered! UPDATE: AITA for leaving my husband at a family reunion? First off, thank you for all the love and support (and constructive criticism). It truly has helped my family a lot. My 13-year-old (Ellie) had suggested I speak to a person that visited her school.Asshole. So earlier today I (28F) told my husband (30M) he needs to make more money, especially if we want to start a family. We were texting at work and I was just kinda casually telling him we need to make more money (especially living in Silicon Valley). I also told him "im waiting on you..Having a kids is in your hands….I then got a phonecall from mom and she didn't sound okay. She asked wether or not my husband took money from his family before they attended the cookout. I was confused I asked what she was talking about and she told me that my husband charged every single person from my side of family who attended the event $25 dollars.File for 50/50 custody instead of visitation rights. That should decrease the child supply payments also. He needs to write everything down in a notebook and date it. Every thing she asks for, everything he sends, every change of plans, every threat, every rule, etc.I told Jack that I was planning to change my will. My plan was to put a third of my assets into a trust for Thomas's children (he has 2 currently that both call me Nana), a third directly to Thomas, and a third in trust for Jack. I would set it up so that Jack would receive a generous monthly check, but that after he died the assets in the ...Sucks to be him. NTA. "Honey if you need a suit of armor - stop talking about who has the most experience sexually. Telling me I could be a pro was designed to either make me laugh, or insult me. I chose to laugh at your joke. But, if you can't handle me joking back - stop making that kind of comment." 1.Telling me that my parents are going to give me grocery money anyway after I call out that you've been eating the majority of my food makes me wonder if you truly respect them and me. When I have to ask my parents for double the money in a short period of time to replace all of what you are eating, it is putting me in danger of having my ...ADMIN. AITA for telling my siblings the real reason why my parents got divorced? Not the A-hole. I (22M) have 3 other siblings (18M, 15M, 12F), our parents are no longer together because of my mom's (42F) infidelity, she was seeing my best friend's dad, when my father found out he kicked her out, she ended moving with her AP and broke two ...Jolly_Ad3178. AITA for letting my husband leave and ruining MIL's family photos? Not the A-hole. I (27F) have been married to my husband (29M) for 5 years. My husband has a big family, 4 sisters and a brother, and they are all very close. SILs visit MIL at least once a week and help out with things like house cleaning and gardening.You need to wake up and get a hold on things. Tell him it is non-negotiable: he shows you his bank statements or you two are separating. No reason for you to have to carry his debt (or pay for it again). Tell him he already has a history of lying to you and mismanaging money.If this is real, YTA for sure. By my account, you cheated on both partners: your husband when u stepped outside the understanding of your marriage, and your bf when u started fucking your husband again. Even if it was just once, which I have a hard time believing, that's all it takes to be a cheater.AITA for telling my husband to talk to his mother re: our newborn. My husband and I just had our first child together after a couple years of trying and dealing with infertility. Our son came early, a month and a half - we spent three weeks in the NICU and it was a very emotional time for me/us. Fast forward and we are now home and getting used ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for never telling my Mother I married into money? Not the A-hole. I (34F) have a difficult relationship with my Mother, she had me when she was 17 and was addicted to various substances when I was growing up. She'd leave me with whoever would watch me for days on end and i'd end up mostly raising myself.I (33F) have a husband Rick (34M) and we have two daughters May (11F) and Vicky (8F). They are my whole world, and I love my family so much. I just have a secret I kept from Rick. Few months before I met Rick. I have a son Weston (14M) who I had, when I was 19. He is being raised by my best friend Lorie (36F) and her mother Annie (56F).I lost it again. Yelling, I looked at my sister-in-law telling her; How dare she use my nursery, for my baby, how dare she think she has the right. What she told me, made me fall to my knees sobbing. "It's not my fault you couldn't produce a …AITA for telling my husband his fragile masculinity is costing us money? Practical-Drama-5549 writes: Back in late 2021, my husband Craig (M46) and I (F44) …"AITA for telling my husband's cousin she shouldn't have thrown a gender reveal party?" Both me (29F) and my husband's cousin Lena (fake name; 27F) are pregnant. ... but she can't dictate what I do about mine. Lena is furious. She told my in-laws that I was kicking her out of my baby shower. I told everyone the truth, but many are still on her ...My ex and father to 2 of my kids is always promising them everything and rarely follows thru. It got to the point where now when their dad says something they hardly believe him and ask my husband to do it instead. My youngest doesn’t even like to talk on the phone with him for more then 5 mins and she’s only 4. But on their dads side of ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for 'hiding' my wealth from my fiance and his family. My fiance (28m) is a doctor, and I 28f work in finance, both earn almost equal pay. Been together for a year and a half, got engaged a month ago and are planning to have a wedding in 7 months. His family is full of doctors, while my dad owns a business, mom is a stah wife ...I'll start at the beginning, my ex husband was a good father but a terrible husband. I divorced him when my oldest was 14 and youngest was 10. Well he ended up spiraling and the kids were exposed to that. I was blamed for ruining dad. He got better after a few years but ending up doing it again when he learned I was dating.So to give some context, I (f32) have been married to my husband (m39) for 4 years. I work a full time job while he does a 3 times a week night shift. We have a 2 year old and I'm 6 months pregnant. This whole drama started days ago. My husband has a large family. And on every Christmas they'd gather at his father's house.NTA. you need to open your own accounts and stop sending your paycheck to the joint one. Joint one only gets enough to pay your half of the bills. If he is responsible for bills, make sure they get paid. Don't let him start making you pay 100% of the bills.ADMIN MOD. AITA for 'hiding' my wealth from my fiance and his family. My fiance (28m) is a doctor, and I 28f work in finance, both earn almost equal pay. Been together for a year and a half, got engaged a month ago and are planning to have a wedding in 7 months. His family is full of doctors, while my dad owns a business, mom is a stah wife ...NTA. My husband is a history nerd. I point blank tell him my eyes are starting to glaze over if he goes on for more than a couple of minutes. I wouldn't stand it if he accosted people in public. Football is a bit of a religion where I live but your husband sounds like he's completely obsessed (to put it mildly).UPDATE) AITA for telling my parents they don't have a daughter : r/AmItheAsshole. Go to AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have ...Yup as a married woman myself you “leave and cleave” meaning you leave your family of origins and cleave to the family you create with your spouse. And as a married man you do the same. Actually. the Bible says that that’s what the man is supposed to do, so he’s even more responsible for it.She even went as far as to take the money from the birthday cards we sent him. He's an adult now and started coming back around on his own terms. My dad set up an afternoon for all of my uncles friends to come and tell my cousin stories about his dad bc his mom basically stopped talking about him after his death. Death does funny things to peopleHarpers father is they type of who is my money is my money and Jennifer's money is their money and he does not want to waste money on classes. Update #1 - June 2, 2023 (2 weeks later) So quite a few people has asked for an update on this situation, sorry it's taken so long but it's been a hectic few weeks.It was just me and my daughter for the next 7 years until I married my husband. We had 3 kids in quick succession after we got married. They are now 8M, 7F, and 5F. I recently found out I was pregnant, and that has made my marriage worse. My daughter's dad first lived off of others giving him money to be an equestrian. He later, I found out ...Their lease almost ended and my parents invited them to stay at our house. The day they came, Jack asked me why I haven't moved out of my room yet. I was confused, like wtf, and he told me that he and Jill will be at my room and I go to guest room. I refused, but my parents got mad, we got into a fight, I lost and ended in much smaller guest room.So me (26f) and my husband (28m), who I'll call "Jake" for this story, have been together for 5 years and married for 3. We have recently started trying for a baby as we both felt like that was the next step in our life together, and 3 weeks ago I got a positive test back. We were really really happy and told our families, and now my mom and MIL want to throw a big …throwaway-36928. AITA for telling my ex his lack of money is not my issue? Not the A-hole. I (36F) have a daughter Sadie (12) with my ex-husband John (39). We got divorced 5 years ago and I have primary custody while he sees her two weekends a month. Last year, he got married to Amanda who has sole custody of her kids (10&8F) from a previous ...All names have been changed. I 35 female am engaged to my fiancé Brian 37 male. We've been together 2 years. He has a daughter Ashley 14 from a previous relationship. I am currently pregnant with our daughter. I like to play the lottery sometimes. Usually just scratch tickets. This time I won 50,000.Collegefundbaby. Aita for telling my dad he's not entitled to a relationship with me. Not the A-hole. When i (27f) was around 10 my parents divorced, it was a messy thing, no one ever told me the reason and i do not really care. My mom won custody because she was able to prove in court that my father was an unfit parent.My mom and I met with a wedding planner for an estimate. $35-$45 thousand dollars. If we go to the resort we have picked out it will cost like $10,000. And that includes paying for his parents, and nephew to join us. My parents know how much money I earn and are insisting that I pay for the wedding myself.My ex-husband and I divorced when my son was ten. My ex had found someone new. We went for 50/50 custody but he still had to pay some child support. I went back to school at that time. On the weeks his dad had him I buckled down and did nothing but schoolwork. When he was with me I made sure I had time for him before and after school.When I presented the plans to my husband he said that we could go to more cities in Italy and he could help me edit pictures for my photography blog. However, he also said that he needed to have meetings and do administrative housekeeping and he needed to do it in person. I was disappointed and he got upset and asked me to stop rolling my eyes. I told …PingPongProfessor • 9 mo. ago. YTA if you tell him he doesn't make enough money, not because that's an AH thing to say, but because that isn't the real problem. Part of the problem is that he spends too much on frivolous, unnecessary crap. But the real problem is that he's a married father of two who acts like he's still single and can do ...I told my brother-in-law to ask my husband for the 5 grand my brother gambled away. My brother is the one who owes the money but I want my husband to pay it off even though my brother-in-law doesn't want that. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQI got married to my husband Cael last year and now we're expecting a girl. My parents brought up how amazing it would be for us to name our daughter Summer and my husband was 100% on board. He was pretty much agreeing before I had a chance to react. When I did talk to him he was shocked I had any doubts and was ready to go full steam ahead.AITA for telling my husband everything, even when my children ask me not to. I (46F) tell my husband (57M) everything. We prefer to be open and honest with each other and enjoy this aspect of our relationship. This includes things our four children tell us individually, as we care about our children and want to help them together as partners.My grandma took me to get ice cream and I explained everything. What happened in my last post as well as everything else that's been going on this past year. She agrees with a lot of you guys that my mom is probably being abused and needs help. We're looking into options for groups and stuff that'll help her out, though my grandma's doing most ...This has been my mantra for years. Mental illness or a diagnosis can be a reason for behavior, but it's not an excuse. Maybe it's not always reasonable to expect a person to be able to change that behavior, but it is perfectly reasonable for someone to say "this is not behavior I'm willing to tolerate in a friend/partner" whether that behavior is just kind of annoying or straight up abusive.People cross-post stories for a chance that our podcast hosts (Sean, John and Josh) will read the story on the show. Before the podcast started reading reddit stories, the hosts would choose a topic and research it using Wikipedia. AITA for telling my husband to go f himself.Turns out my wife must've told her about her decision and she decided to follow her lead. My brother is pissed saying my wife is encouraging his wife to do this. I see that the problem has just gotten bigger now. Who knows, my younger sister might join in and decide not to go as well. I don't know how this got out of control so quickly.Update: Wow, I was not expecting this to blow up, or for so many people to have such strong feelings about bread. Thank you for all of your input, especially my sister who unexpectedly chimed in. This may be the most validating experience of 7 years of living together. I shared this with my husband, and he accepts his AH status and apologized.My husband has known Clara since she was a baby and he treats her like his own little sister. Her family had a lot of financial problems, while my husband has a very high earning career. He says he felt guilty letting her struggle while he has all this money he doesn’t use. Clara's home life was very dysfunctional, especially after her mom ...But nope. Not you. You could have told your husband, “Eew. Yuck. You are sick,” and kicked him to the curb and gathered your wounded bird to your bosom and vowed to protect her. But nope, not you. YTA for destroying your daughter’s life with your piss poor parenting and self-involved behavior. Reply reply.My husband always complains that my daughter doesn't spend time with her stepsiblings or him but she has reasons for that and that is school, health issues and work. She does her best to spend as much time with them as she can. but she on the other hand complains that her stepdad tells her to basically take on the role of a babysitter whenever ...Dad is taken aback by his ex-wife requesting financial support for her new husband and family, after openly admitting to him that she had remained married to him for three years just for his money. “AITA For …Write her a letter. Tell her all the things about her that you love, and all the ways you can't imagine living your life without her. Even if you're not a good writer, write it in your own words from your heart. There is 100% no better gift than that, and she'll love it and probably keep it for the rest of her life.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I have told my sister that she owes my money for stealing my watch for months and bringing back dirty and worn and scratched. I think I'm the asshole for telling her this impulsively and putting all the blame on her for my own negligence.Harpers father is they type of who is my money is my money and Jennifer's money is their money and he does not want to waste money on classes. Update #1 - June 2, 2023 (2 weeks later) So quite a few people has asked for an update on this situation, sorry it's taken so long but it's been a hectic few weeks.Frankly, their reaction about who they would "allow" in their family now and forever absolves you of any guilt about not telling them. You don't need to apologize to them. They need to apologize to you and your husband. As for refunding them, they bought it, unasked, based purely on assumptions they made.Extra money should be put aside for the kids, or whatever. NTA. For anyone crying "financial abuse", for threatening to stop paying for his ticket, no. Husband makes money and he decides to give it all to his family. It certainly seems like his family will find any and all excuses to make your money thiers.I had a miscarriage on Christmas while staying with my parents. I had to tell my parents what was going on, and it was awkward enough. I can’t imagine having to explain to my in-laws that I had a ton of bloody mucous coming out of my vagina, let alone some stranger. OP’s husband needs to kick his friend out. This is not a time for houseguests.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my mom's husband I'm so glad he didn't get to name me? Not the A-hole. My mom and her husband are expecting a baby together. I'm 17F and was my mom's only child until she got pregnant. Her husband has no kids. So some context on this: My name is a bit of a sore issue with my mom.2.7K Likes, 76 Comments. TikTok video from redditlisa (@redditlisa): “AITA for telling my husband. My money is mine? #storytime #reddit #redditstories #fyp …Ellen and I are not close, and never have been, we only saw each other at family get togethers. Ellen has a husband "Tom" (34). Tom is a nice guy, and when she introduced him to the family, he and my husband hit it off, and my husband ended up hiring Tom to work for him.Mark explained that he doesn’t have that kind of money. So I said she can’t come back until my daughters stuff is repaired with a sincere apology. Koi agreed and mark was upset saying he couldn’t do that to his daughter. I told him to leave if that’s the case. Mark left for a few hours and handed my daughter a check for 1000 dollars. I ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my “brother” if his kids go hungry that’s his problem not mine. Not the A-hole. Throwaway My English is a work in progress so just a warning. I’ll call my “brother” mike and my ex Tammy. 10 years ago my than fiancé left me at the alter (most humiliating thing I’ve ever been through) and went on our ...UPDATE. Link to the original: AITA for telling my bf it isn't appropriate to come to the family vacation. Hello everyone!I hope your having a nice day! After my original post I figured I could make an update. When I was leaving from the apartment 4 days ago I left a key to my neighbor/friend. Yesterday she called me to inform me that my bf ...He spends one week with me and one with my ex. My girlfriend and her daughter moved in with me at the beginning of this year. My son and her have been getting along better than I could've hoped for but lately he's been acting dismissive towards her and her daughter. Last week, we found out that we're going to have a child together.I lost it again. Yelling, I looked at my sister-in-law telling her; How dare she use my nursery, for my baby, how dare she think she has the right. What she told me, made me fall to my knees sobbing. "It's not my fault you couldn't produce a child, why let this go to waste, you're so selfish."r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.It’s just the dynamics of Saturday that is my issue. poweller65. Just start taking Emma. If your , Notthebabydad. MOD. AITA for telling my ex that her kids were not my problem or my son's problem. My ex, My username is not in reference to Randy. My wife refers to our baby as h, I didn't know how much money to ask my husband for. 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